"We're Fine" isn't Fun... That's what 15+ years of helping couples rekindle the spark has proven. So, I’m here to show you how The P.O.U.R. & Play Experience is the secret to something that we all crave:  More FUN. More INTIMACY. More US.

Here’s what I see happen again and again: You’re not falling apart. You’re not falling deeper in love. You’re just stuck in “we’re fine” mode—and it’s quietly draining the fun.

In just 5 Days, Get Back to the Playful Connection you miss—No Therapist, No Date Night Pressure, and No having to Pretend You’re Not Tired.

Click the button below to see what happens when you decide to press the reset button in your relationship today.

Join The FREE Couple's Reset Now!
 

The Roadblock You Didn’t See Coming . . .

Let’s talk about the thing that’s been creeping in lately…

You both take your spot on the couch. Both scrolling. Both quiet.
Not because you’re mad. Not because you fought. Just… separate worlds in the same room.

And it’s weird, because you do love each other. You’re committed. You’re "fine."

But lately “fine” looks like an in-a-rush hello, a half-asleep goodnight, and a relationship that’s started to feel a little… less close. Like life slowly swapped your inside jokes for grocery lists—and your flirty glances for eye rolls over wet towels. 

Here’s The Truth Nobody Really Says Out Loud: those moments didn’t disappear because you wanted them to. They got crowded out by laundry piles, mental load, stress… and the sneakiest thief of all:

AUTOPILOT.

Not the kind you notice right away—the kind that takes over bit by bit.
You’re sitting side by side, but your thoughts are still chasing work, messages, bills, and whatever you forgot to pick up.

But There Is Good News!

It doesn’t have to stay this way. As a Relationship Wellness Consultant with more than 15 years of experience, I am here to show you how to press the RESET button . . . Not on your entire relationship—on the way you connect.

. . . And in less time than it takes to binge a handful of episodes for your favorite show, you can:

Bring back playful energy with small "I see you" moments

Turn silences into belly laughs (without forcing it)

Feel closer again—one wink, giggle, or grin at a time

No awkward group sessions, no hefty price tags—just a little time and a lot of fun together . . .

INTRODUCING 

THE ULTIMATE COUPLE'S RESET

{5-Day Adventure} 

Ditch the “we need to work on our relationship” vibe. This isn’t a "fix it all now" program—it’s 5 days of small, daily connection moments you may not even realize you’ve been missing.

No heavy talks.

No awkward advice.

No “tell me three grievances before bedtime.” 😅

Our approach isn't about turning your relationship into a chore . . .

Think: appreciation over the blame game… winks across the room instead of eye rolls… and little moments that make you want to be closer (on the couch and in the bedroom). 

No keeping score, no complicated rules, just simple ways to rediscover what makes your relationship yours.

Just 5 days of bite-sized, choose-your-adventure-style games that bring back the laughter, inside jokes, and the “I’m so glad I get to do life with you” moments.

All you need? Bring your love, your curiosity, and your sense of adventure (no cool game pieces required).

Oh—And the best part? Joining The Ultimate Couple’s Reset is totally FREE— because flirting with your partner shouldn’t cost more than your last coffee run, right?

Yeah, We SHOULD Flirt More!

What is The P.O.U.R. & PLAY Experience?

Together, we turn connection into a playful game. Showing love should feel easy, not heavy, and never come with scorekeeping, pointing fingers or Monopoly-level disagreements (hey, we get it... everyone wants to be the banker).

Here's what you can look forward to . . .

  RESET DAY 1 & 2: The Great Burnout Escape

What's Holding You Back: You're exhausted. You're touched out. You're running on fumes.

The Reset: Rediscover why you're each other's favorite human.

How You'll Press Reset:

  • Play a hilarious "mind-reading" game (no psychic powers required)
  • Discover what your partner actually needs (hint: it's probably not what you think)
  • Learn how to forgive the little things (yes, even the toothpaste cap thing)
  • Try a “lending a hand” challenge… the wholesome kind. (Not that kind… yet. 🥰)

The Win: You'll end Day 2 feeling lighter, more connected, and wondering why you waited so long to bring the fun back.

✓  RESET 3 & 4: Ditch the Misunderstandings & Find the Fun

What's Holding You Back: You're guessing what your partner wants. They're guessing what you want. Nobody's winning.

The Reset: Stop guessing. Start knowing.

How You'll Press Reset:

  • Uncover the needs you’ve both been tiptoeing around
  • Try P.O.U.R. & Play experiences that make you laugh and think, “Oh yeah… this is why we work.” (Think: a random kitchen dance-off… or silly faces to lighten a “serious talk.”)
  • Explore what makes your partner feel loved (spoiler: it's not always the big gestures)

The Win: You'll feel heard, seen, and adored—without having to beg for it.

 RESET DAY 5: Fun, Flirty, and Full of Feels—Are You In?

Drumroll, please . . . Day 5 brings the spark, the spice, and the seriously good vibes! Let's turn your love "woes" into "whoa!"

What's Holding You Back: Intimacy feels awkward, forced... or non-existent.

The Reset: Create intimacy that fits YOUR comfort level—right now.

How You'll Press Reset:

  • Build your own "Intimacy Menu"—from bold, fiery moments in the bedroom to gentle, loving touch while watching Netflix on the couch. (Spoiler alert: both count as intimate!)
  • Learn how to initiate intimacy without the awkwardness
  • Discover how to say “not right now” without guilt
  • Experience a playful activity that shows you the power of non-sexual touch

The Win: You'll finish Day 5 with a grin that says, "Yeah, we still got it."

Give Me FREE Access To The Fun & All The Feels!

Plus! There are 6 FREE BONUS GIFTS just within your arm’s reach . . .

By saying yes to starting The Ultimate Couple's Reset - {5-Day Adventure} by submitting your registration, you'll receive your unique login details and instant access to the OFFICIAL Ultimate Couple's Reset Hub – where your bonus gifts are ready and waiting.

These FREEBIES are your roadmap to reset, rebuild and rekindle your intimacy—inside and outside the bedroom.

Get ready to break through the barriers holding you back and create the relationship that both actually want!

THE INTIMACY MENU:

Stop feeling rejected or guilty – learn how to initiate and decline intimacy inside and outside the bedroom - judgment-free.

THE TWINKLE REELS GUIDE:

Without this guide – it is likely that you will continue to miss daily opportunities for connection with your partner. Let me show you how to avoid feeling overlooked and ignored.

THE APPRECIATION VAULT:

No more keeping score – Get my template to instantly feel loved and appreciated by tapping into your memorable moments on demand.

 
VIRTUAL COUPLE’S EXPERIENCES:

Learn AND Laugh with other couples – you are not alone in your relationship journey. Learn, laugh, and connect with other couples—because you’re not alone in this. You’ll get invitations to upcoming FREE online couple experiences with fun, interactive games that help you reconnect in real time.


MEMBERS ONLINE COMMUNITY:

Inspiration and Insight – request to join our private community of couples to get encouragement, share wins, and feel supported while you move through a tough season and back into connection.


MONTHLY SAVINGS:

Want a little extra Self-care or Romance? You’ll find monthly coupons and savings on bath, body, and relationship goodies waiting for you inside The Ultimate Couple’s Reset {5-Day Adventure}.

Yessss! I Want These FREE Gifts!

Hi, I'm Ashley

Since I became a Relationship Wellness Consultant in 2009, there's one question I get asked the most.... “But what if my partner won’t do this with me?”

Let me tell you a quick story… Imagine you’re in a tandem kayak for the first time together, out on a sunny lake. You’re paddling like a champ.

Your partner? They're just sitting there, holding a sandwich, enjoying the ride. Your arms feel like spaghetti. You're thinking, "Excuse me, are we both in the same boat?"

Frustrating, right?

Here’s The Thing: you can’t force them to grab a paddle. Maybe they’re just not ready to try something new, or maybe they don’t even realize they’re holding a sandwich instead of a paddle. But here’s the plot twist—you don’t have to tip the whole kayak just because they’re chilling.

Instead, Focus On What You Can Do: Change course and head towards something light and fun—a place they’ll want to explore, too. That's the beauty of The Ultimate Couple's Reset:

You'll discover how to: Notice your own actions (without beating yourself up), Focus on what your partner does RIGHT (not just wrong), Create tiny daily moments that shift the vibe.

So don’t worry about dragging them along. Just take a few intentional strokes toward connection—and let happiness start with you. And who knows… the joy you create might be the thing that inspires them put down the sandwich and pick up a paddle. 😉

Are you ready for your next adventure? Let’s go! ❤️

Ooh, I'd Like More FREE Adventurous Moments!

Let's Recap:

Joining The Ultimate Couple’s Reset is totally FREE—because flirting shouldn’t cost a fortune! 😄You'll get 5 days of bite-sized, choose-your-adventure-style games that bring back the laughter, inside jokes, and the “I’m so glad I get to do life with you” moments.💕

What You Can Expect: 

 Break the Daily Grind  Shake things up and have fun again! (don’t worry, this will work even if you haven’t had a real conversation in a while).

 ✓ Stop Guessing – No more trying to read each other’s minds (guessing games belong at trivia night, not in your relationship). 

✓ Kick The Negative Spiral – The “I’m not doing enough” thoughts? We’ll help you quiet them down and focus on what’s working.

✓ Create Your Own Intimacy Menu – Choose what you're in the mood for: 

  • Casual: think comfy pants and inside jokes
  • Cuddly: all the hugs, minus the crumbs
  • "Close": the kind of connection that makes you smirk a little 😏

. . . you decide what goes on the menu and what suits your vibe in the moment!

✓ Plus, Bonus Perks – Extra freebies that make you feel like the ultimate dream team. Think Tacos & Tuesdays... but with a little more connection—and hopefully less mess!

I'm Ready To Play!

So, Are You Ready To Hit Reset?

Hey there… I see you hovering over the “Okay, Let’s Do This!” button like it’s the last slice of pizza—part of you wants it immediately… part of you is like, “Do I have room for this?

That hesitation makes sense. Life is full. You’re tired. And the last thing you want is another thing that asks more of you.

I get it. That’s why this isn’t about doing more.
It’s about making space for a few small moments that bring you back to each other—without pressure, without fixing, without pretending you have more energy than you do.

Because even when life is busy… you still matter. And so does the way you connect.

If you’re craving something lighter, warmer, and more real… this is your invitation.


Ask yourself this... 
What if you pressed the reset button right now? What if, in just 5 days, you were laughing more, feeling closer, and remembering, “Oh yeah… we’re still us.”

 
Because the only thing standing between you and a playful, connected, “Look at us being all cute and stuff” relationship... is the decision to jump in today.

So click the button below and together, we'll kick off Day 1 of The Ultimate Couple’s Reset with more fun, more appreciation, and more "us."
Your FREE adventure awaits. Come as you are—snacks and comfy clothes are welcome (party hats optional!
) 🎉

~ Hugs And Good Vibes ~
Ashley

Okay, Let's Do This!

Frequently Asked Questions

SAY NO MORE - I'M READY!